So much of the demoralization and disillusionment so many of those in pursuit of healthy, nourishing and intimate relationships struggle with has to do with their inability to discern between attraction, intimacy and sex. As a result, their efforts are doomed and the deep connections they’re hungering for, remain elusive. They either never happen or when they get into a relationship, it doesn’t pan out. They often wind up dumbfounded and downtrodden. “How did this happen? How did I ever get involved with this person or this relationship? Where was I? How did it go from feeling so good to so bad so fast? What did I miss?