The relationship training I do with singles is based on the premise that dating, relating and connecting are art forms – you really need to know what you are doing. I have found that the overall biggest stumbling block is the prevailing lack of know how, which includes the fact that a number of key terms, concepts and common pitfalls are not on their radar, that the overwhelming majority of singles are not prepared for the realities of dating.
The most common pitfalls to be avoided are:
1. Not Knowing when You’re Flirting
2. Nothing More than Sex
3. ‘Being in’ or ‘Falling in Love’
4. “Splitting” Sexual and Emotional Intimacy
5. Confusing Feeling and Action
6. The Personalization Phenomenon
7. Why can’t you read my mind?
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