Relationship Training - To Initiate Contact or Wait.

Are there set patterns for relationships that work? What I mean to say is in regards to initiating and/or maintaining a relationship. I seem to hesitate when I feel inclined to initiate, as I know that it not a comfortable pattern for me. Sometimes it just happens naturally. Is it wise to wait for those times or should I develop the ability to initiate?

Response from Daniel...

There is no doubt that understanding some basic principles about relationships, developing skills and entering into an initial encounter mentally and emotionally prepared effects outcomes. Showing interest or initiating contact is par for the course when it comes to dating or at any other stage of relationship. Even though you may be uncomfortable, as most people tend to be in these situations, you're afforded the opportunity to practice and gain experience with relatively little to lose. Being able to express interest regardless of how the other person responds to you demonstrates confidence and builds confidence, and certainly increases your chances of establishing a rapport and if a relationship does materialize, that it will be a healthy one. Intimacy requires you to express your true feelings, and to accurately represent yourself, and of course the other person to act in kind. The principles that apply here are:

When you can express your true feelings in the beginning stages of the relationship, you'll be able to do so in later stages.

The initial encounter is a microcosm of the developing relationship. A relationship continues from where it begins.

Honesty breeds honesty. Dishonesty breeds dishonesty.