Relationship Training
* Professionals * Academia *
* Those in Recovery *
* Anyone Seeking Greater Relationship Fulfillment *
Daniel Linder's Relationship Model of Addiction As Featured in the June 2007 Issue of RECOVERY TODAY
Just Released! Daniel Linder's latest book:
Intimacy: The Essence of True Love
Just when the focus on relationships seems to have only
recently begun to take hold, and when relationship training type workshops
are cropping up in many treatment programs across the United States, the
Relational Model of Addiction and Recovery emerges. The Relational Model
not only provides a sound theoretical basis for Relational Recovery, it
accounts for etiology, identifies pre-existing conditions, brings forth
a phenomenological or experiential perspective, which have profound treatment
implications. From a Relational perspective, we’re talking about
cause and cure in the same breath.
Demystifying establishes a relational premise, a model built
on the concept of a relationship, picking up where the traditional
Medical model left off. The medical model definition of the
disease of addiction is a ‘pathological dependence,’ yet
never considered its implications: That dependence implies
relationship; therefore a pathological relationship. Addiction
is a relationship with a source of relief of pain stemming
primarily from unmet emotional needs in non-emotionally nourishing
relationships, past and current ones.
Relational provides all of the direction and guidance that
empower others to create healthy, intimate, emotionally nourishing
relationships. It identifies basic principles, concepts and
pitfalls combined with requisite communication skills involved
in the creation of emotionally nourishing relationships. Relational is a full-proof, no-lose, approach in which valuable lessons
are learned whenever these principles are applied in the real
world.
Relationships
are not a matter of luck.
Basic principles apply.
When it comes to relationships, chances are your experience
is fraught with disillusionment, demoralization and confusion.
You wish your relationships work better, but don’t know
how to make them better.
If you lack experience in emotionally nourishing relationships;
past and present ones, it should come as no surprise that relationships
have become a source of frustration. It’s quite possible
that the lack of healthy role models left you without the necessary
understanding and skills to navigate this terrain.
Relationships are an art form, a creative process that requires
focus, discipline, a certain mindset, training and practice.
It doesn’t take years of therapy to eliminate sabotaging
behavior and empower yourself. It does take patience, a clear
sense of purpose and commitment to the process.
I invite you to sample a free, introductory Relationship Training
module, Avoiding Pitfalls that Sabotage Relationship
Opportunities,
in which some of the most common pitfalls will be identified
and discussed. Being able to make certain distinctions can
make an extraordinary difference in improving your chances
of creating the kind of relationships you ultimately want.
It is presumed that a sustained period of abstinence/sobriety
has been achieved…at least six months to a year. |